Last year I made the mistake in agreeing to go out with a guy....because he was young. 28 or 29....can't remember. I was flattered that he was interested. He was/is a filmmaker and production assistant. Worked on some reality tv shows in LA and moved back to IL. Sounds right up my alley, right? WRONG. The dude is a mess! A MESS! He's socially very awkward. We met for coffee and after that I received numerous text messages from him. I made it perfectly clear that I wasn't interested (10/20/2010 Sent this to him: You are a really nice guy but unfortunately are not the right guy for me. I wish you all the best!). To this day he is STILL contacting me. We met October 18th 2010. It is now 5/2/2011.
I get random texts like these:
10/25/2010 4:26pm: Hey yo! How are you doin? (My response: Good. Hope you are well.) Crazy Dude: Yeah, I'm OK. Tired and sick. (My response: Oh no. Fell better soon.) Crazy Dude: Thanks. And again, if you ever need anything from me please let me know. (My response: Will do. Thanks!)
10/25/2010 5:54pm: You good tonight? (My response: NOTHING)
AFTER THE WHOLE TEXT EXCHANGE AN HOUR BEFORE HE SENDS ANOTHER TEXT. IS HE DERANGED????
10/25/2010 6:35pm: How r u doing tonight? (My response: Good, thanks) Crazy Dude: Ok. Please contact me in the future. (My response: NOTHING)
11/6/2010 10:14pm: Hey! It's Rick. How r u doin' tonight? (My response: NOTHING)
12/10/2010 8:17pm: Hey! What r u up to tonight? Wanna hang out? (My response: Sorry I can't....already out with friends. Have a nice night.) Crazy Dude: U 2. If you wanna hang out later tonight, let me know. :-) (My response: NOTHING)
3/30/2011 6:12pm: Hey u. How's it going? (My response: NOTHING)
5/2/2011 10:44pm: Hey Hey! What you doing right now? (My response: You really need to stop texting me. You seem like a nice guy but I'm not interested in hanging out. I'm sorry) Crazy Dude: I understand. Just wondering if u need anything tonight? (My response: NOTHING)
WTF would I need at 11pm???? And honestly, I don't think this is sexual in nature. I think he means like if I need a bowl of soup.....or a hammer. The guy is deranged. Am I reading this wrong? Who contacts someone every 1-2 months to see if someone needs something from them? We met for 30 minutes last year. THAT IS ALL. I'm honestly perplexed.
date me!
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Don't underestimate the need of a hammer. And, who doesn't like soup??
ReplyDeleteYou know what? You're right. I'm texting him right now. I'm telling him to bring his crock pot. Thanks for putting it all in perspective.
ReplyDeleteThat's what I'm here for.
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