As I've started hanging out with a new crop of single gal pals all in their early to mid 40's I've noticed a trend.....we're all very Sex and the City. We are (I liken myself to be a cross betwixt all the gals as there's a little Carrie/Charlotte/Miranda and Samantha in me...equally divided, I'd say). None of us are clamouring to get married in fact most don't think they ever want it. We are all independent and set in our ways but would like a steady beau in our lives.
I've never thought of myself as very traditional. I think there were a few years in my late 20's/early 30's that I was DYING to get married. But why? And thank God I didn't. I just liked the idea of marriage but now I like the idea of being with someone that I love and if that comes with marriage or doesn't then I'm OK either way (and living together is another story - if we ever shack up, be prepared for my 3 flat screens and DVR's because they're a' comin with me). It's nice to find ladies who agree with that since over the last few years I seem to have surrounded myself more and more with dames that long for the babies and marriage. And there's nothing wrong with that but as I've grown older I long for the connection with a great guy and not the ceremony that surrounds it. It'd be nice to have but not a requirement at all.
By the by....that SATC2 movie blew! Just blew. But it is always nice to see the ladies together. It's made such an impact on my life (the TV show) and I know has done the same for other women. Now that 3 out of the 4 are settled down and married, to me....Samantha is the most engaging (Miranda being a close second) character. But I digress....
All in all I think my summary is I'm open to anything. I just want to find the dude. The one dude that will be mine.....for a long, long time....anything else is icing on the cake....but I like my cake just plain as too much icing makes me nauseous.
DATE ME!
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