Today I am walking around with a smile on my face and a spring in my step. I'm trying to make it seem like I'm happy and in a good mood (which I am not). Most of the time (from my own perception) I walk around oblivious with *maybe* a scowl on my puss (that's FACE gutter people). I almost want it to seem like I've got myself a secret. Fancy, right?
I am not caught up on the Bachelorette but I just watched the Bently leaving episode. It was great TV but SO planned. Like the Producers didn't know this would happen when they cast him?! It's so contrived but I still love it. And that Ashley. Oy. She's annoying. If I were a dude she would so not be my type (It's probably good to know what my lady type would be, right?). I'd be more into an Angelie Jolie type - independent and not needy. (To be honest: Never have I thought about the type of lady I'd be interested in until this writing but now that I know I'm all set.)
I do like the fact that Ashley told JP that she just wanted to relax and came out looking like a JR High girl with her pj's and glasses. Did she purposely mess up her hair to look disheveled when she came back? Wasn't a change of clothes enough? All she needed was a retainer and I'm sure JP was good to go.
OK...so.....that's all I got.
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Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Just A Quick How Do Ya Do
Really have no news. Taking a dating break. Still on hiatus folks.
Have a couple stragglers still texting or calling but I don't consider them real playas. I am enjoying not stressing about dating. I still think about it....a lot....but I'm not stressing. I'm actually really enjoying myself and have a crazy, jam packed calendar already for the summer.
I don't quite have it all....but I have enough.
Date Me (maybe....maybe not....)
Have a couple stragglers still texting or calling but I don't consider them real playas. I am enjoying not stressing about dating. I still think about it....a lot....but I'm not stressing. I'm actually really enjoying myself and have a crazy, jam packed calendar already for the summer.
I don't quite have it all....but I have enough.
Date Me (maybe....maybe not....)
Monday, June 6, 2011
Exactly!
This is what I've been talking about, People! It may be Onionized but it be true!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/05/national-dating-standards-lowered_n_871471.html
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/05/national-dating-standards-lowered_n_871471.html
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Sunday, June 5, 2011
What If....
What if you meet a guy and you kind of click with him?
What if you think he's cute?
What if you think he's caring?
What if you think he has a great personality?
WHAT IF he wants you to go dutch on every date?
He hasn't paid for anything for me. Not even a drink. He's not asking me to pay for him, mind you. He doesn't make a ton of money. But I remember that Sex and The City where Steve took Miranda out for a slice of pizza because that's what he could afford. Be HE paid.....for the BOTH of them.
Do I let something like this stand in the way of getting to know a (from what I can tell) good guy?
I'm just not sure.
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What if you think he's cute?
What if you think he's caring?
What if you think he has a great personality?
WHAT IF he wants you to go dutch on every date?
He hasn't paid for anything for me. Not even a drink. He's not asking me to pay for him, mind you. He doesn't make a ton of money. But I remember that Sex and The City where Steve took Miranda out for a slice of pizza because that's what he could afford. Be HE paid.....for the BOTH of them.
Do I let something like this stand in the way of getting to know a (from what I can tell) good guy?
I'm just not sure.
Date Me
Monday, May 30, 2011
Gone
Unfortunately, there was a death in my family yesterday. It was a long time coming but extremely sad, nonetheless. It was someone I loved....adored! Growing up she was the coolest person in the world to me and I LOVED visiting and would cry when I had to leave. She was the best.
Well....I now feel like I have an angel watching over me (growing up people would say I resembled her and I took it as a compliment.....like when someone told me years ago that I resembled Lucille Ball - the YOUNG Lucille). I know this sounds nuts but I believe it to be true. How else would I have been walking my dog yesterday and a fella approached me, struck up a conversation and asked for my phone number? This NEVER happens to me (unless you remember Danny Cologne - alias - oh so many years ago).
Anyway....we all mourn and grieve in our own way. I'm not a big talker about my emotions until some time has passed and then all I want to do is talk. But for now I just keep it close to the heart. But when I have my secret chats and inner dialogues I now know she'll be watching over me from above while trying to push the hair out of my eyes and smiling.
Oh....and if this doesn't get me married within a year or two then nothing else will.
I raise this pork rind to you.
Well....I now feel like I have an angel watching over me (growing up people would say I resembled her and I took it as a compliment.....like when someone told me years ago that I resembled Lucille Ball - the YOUNG Lucille). I know this sounds nuts but I believe it to be true. How else would I have been walking my dog yesterday and a fella approached me, struck up a conversation and asked for my phone number? This NEVER happens to me (unless you remember Danny Cologne - alias - oh so many years ago).
Anyway....we all mourn and grieve in our own way. I'm not a big talker about my emotions until some time has passed and then all I want to do is talk. But for now I just keep it close to the heart. But when I have my secret chats and inner dialogues I now know she'll be watching over me from above while trying to push the hair out of my eyes and smiling.
Oh....and if this doesn't get me married within a year or two then nothing else will.
I raise this pork rind to you.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Blech!
A gentleman (and I use this term VERY loosely) text messaged me the other night. No, this is not the 29 yr old but another dude that I mistakenly gave my number to (they all start out so promising what with their sincere written word and cute pics). We have never met. Well, I hadn't heard from him in months and then the other day I get a "Heyhowareyouwhat'sgoingon?" text. I respond back kind of giddy that he contacted me. We exchange some casual back and forth texts and when I mention that we should set up a time to meet I don't hear back. Then the next night....or should I say MORNING I get the first text at 12:42am: Hi. I don't answer as I don't keep my phones in my boudoir. Then he sends another text at 1:27am: Hi there sexxxy!!!
Oh, and this is a dude from E-Harmony that is supposed to be a more respectable site.
Gross. I mean COME ON! Who are these idiots?? I guess I have to give him credit for the triple x in sexy, right? But really.....are any guys looking for a real relationship? Any cute dudes or are they all fine with random hook ups because they can probably get them? What happened to courtship and relationships? I know they still exist because a lot of my friends have them. But I also think they're becoming few and far between because there's so much candy being manufactured. Well....I'm no Twix, fellas. I'm a LADY. I want a relationship. I don't need your XXX.....just 1 X will do just fine.
Date me....or don't.....whatever!
Oh, and this is a dude from E-Harmony that is supposed to be a more respectable site.
Gross. I mean COME ON! Who are these idiots?? I guess I have to give him credit for the triple x in sexy, right? But really.....are any guys looking for a real relationship? Any cute dudes or are they all fine with random hook ups because they can probably get them? What happened to courtship and relationships? I know they still exist because a lot of my friends have them. But I also think they're becoming few and far between because there's so much candy being manufactured. Well....I'm no Twix, fellas. I'm a LADY. I want a relationship. I don't need your XXX.....just 1 X will do just fine.
Date me....or don't.....whatever!
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Taking A Break
Went out on a coffee date last week and it just about did me in. I think I'm done looking. I'm sure I'll get the itch again but for now I'm done. DONE. I may have 1-2 residual meet and greets from a couple dudes I've been corresponding with but won't be shocked if neither of them follow through.
This whole process has been draining. I just want to enjoy my summer. I'm busy with work. I ran a half marathon (holla!). I'm getting new headshots and hope to pursue some on-camera work and I'm planning a trip to Italy. That's all I can handle for now.
And honestly, if one more guy that I've met/gone out with re-connects with me to tell me how great I am and that I'll find the one soon initiates this convo I'm gonna lose it. If I was/am so great then why didn't you want to be with me? Yeah....I'm fantastic and you're an ass.
They say once you stop looking is when you'll find the person. Hmm....we'll see if this is the case.
Like Oprah I'm done. Unlike Oprah I will not be holding a big party for myself with Beyonce and Madonna at the United Center. Though something I'll keep in my back pocket.
Do Not Date Me! (there!)
This whole process has been draining. I just want to enjoy my summer. I'm busy with work. I ran a half marathon (holla!). I'm getting new headshots and hope to pursue some on-camera work and I'm planning a trip to Italy. That's all I can handle for now.
And honestly, if one more guy that I've met/gone out with re-connects with me to tell me how great I am and that I'll find the one soon initiates this convo I'm gonna lose it. If I was/am so great then why didn't you want to be with me? Yeah....I'm fantastic and you're an ass.
They say once you stop looking is when you'll find the person. Hmm....we'll see if this is the case.
Like Oprah I'm done. Unlike Oprah I will not be holding a big party for myself with Beyonce and Madonna at the United Center. Though something I'll keep in my back pocket.
Do Not Date Me! (there!)
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