Tuesday, January 18, 2011

I See You

I have a home date coming up. Not mine but his. So would that technically be considered an away game? In any case....I'm nervous. I think this is a big step. Is it make or break? Maybe.

When dating someone new, is seeing them once a week good or bad? I'm used to spending a lot of time with my paramour but as I've gotten older I haven't sweated more sporadic get togethers. Is this bad? Does this mean I don't like him? I fear that we can't build the kind of momentum that we need by only seeing each other once in awhile. But so far it hasn't hindered my feelings....well, maybe it has as I still haven't made up my mind if he's a keeper....and I'm going to venture a guess that he feels the same way. When do you turn the switch to see each other more often?

So....Saturday is going to be a big day for us. I can feel it.

Dating is scary. Not fun. This much I know is true.

Date Me!

4 comments:

  1. I wrote a great comment at lunch time and Blogspot ate it. :( It was something about how there's no "good" or "bad"...each couple is different and I think it's good to miss each other a little.
    That said, I dated a guy I only saw every two weeks and I really felt like I was not high priority in his life.
    It's all chemistry in the beginning anyway. You're wise to take it slow. :)

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  2. Slow and steady wind the race, right???!!!

    PS: Boo to Blogspot for eating your great comment....but this one was pretty great as well.

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  3. Ugh....WINS the race....not WIND the race...though that sounds interesting as well....

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  4. I tried to wind the race once, it was really unfortunate.

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