Why is too nice too.....NOT COOL? As I found out the other night, sometimes a guy who is OVERLY nice....Trying WAY too hard....is a big turn off. We all SAY we want a "nice guy"....a "good guy"...but when that dude is standing right in front of you, do you really want him?
Here's my theory on this: Yes. I do want a nice guy. I want someone who thinks about me and wants to see me and spend time with me and say nice things about my appearance. Someone who considers me in decisions and makes me a part of his life. BUT when that person doesn't know me? Has only met me for an hour and is basically "in like" with me? That is scary and unappealing. I have recently come upon this situation and frankly it turned me way off. At the beginning of a relationship....especially if you don't know the person and you're meeting them for the first time, don't go overboard. I don't want someone planning our future....getting paranoid if I like them or not. HELLO! I'M the one who's supposed to be like that. Not the guy. Maybe it's just me? Ladies...any thoughts? A little chase never hurt anyone. But once you both know that you like one another then I don't want any of that distant/guessing crap. Then we're committed and I like you and you like me and I like thoughtful gifts and sweet nothings whispered in my ear. But after a first meeting? No way, Jose.
Jose....wonder what he's doing tonight? Hmmm....
Do I want my cake and eat it too? Yes. Is this too much to ask? I don't think so. Cake....yum....cake AND Jose. Thank you.
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I think it is neither male nor female, but human - to not really dig someone moving too fast. Because you know what? That means they haven't even thought about it. Just like a dude who doesn't pay attention hasn't really thought about who you are, so a guy who pays too much attention.
ReplyDeleteJust relax Jose...seriously.