How is it that the 29 year old stalker DOES NOT GET THE HINT? He just struck AGAIN a few minutes ago. This kid must have some balls. BIG balls. Why? Well.....when he called me a month or so ago 3 times consecutively (of course, I did not pick up as it was after midnight and he's a nutjob) I was at my wits end. I called my sister to ask for her advice. My initial instinct was to tell him that if he doesn't leave me alone I'm going to contact the police. But this made me worried as I don't quite know what I'm dealing with (obviously since I never return his texts or voice mails and he STILL contacts me makes me think he's a lunatic) and don't want to be murdered, SO.....my sis suggested she'd get her friend (he's a total bad ass and gets a kick out of "scaring people"......but in the nicest way possible) to call him and *lightly* threaten him that if he didn't leave me alone that he'd *kindly* kick his ass. Well, obviously the guy is insane because he just text messaged me: "Hey its (not it's.....what a smarty) rick. Remember me?" Um.....how could I forget you, you PSYCHO????
So....here's my question: What the Hell do I do now? He's not threatening me or harming me in any way but it's SOOO annoying. I just want him to leave me alone. Do you think this will ever happen or is this guy going to contact me forever?! Ugh! I'm open to suggestions if anyone has any ideas.
I'm just so over it!
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Where did you meet this guy? (you can tell me privately if you want) A friend of mine recently met a guy online. He did the text stalking thing for awhile and then the other day he asked her why she was in the hospital Tuesday. Her own family didn't even know she was in the hospital. CREEPERS.
ReplyDeleteI don't mess around. Threaten a restraining order. It's worked for me in the past. (also in the past, having my mother call the offender helped, but it's your choice if you want to go there)
Guh. ew. Have you spoken forcefully to this guy yet? I couldn't tell...if you haven't, get on the phone, be a badass and tell him to stop! If not, then get Heidi's guy...
ReplyDeleteI had Heidi's guy contact him already. What's the point in having him do it again? He obviously doesn't get it (even after some very strong worded threats). I think the guy just has a major screw loose. I worry that if I get too stern with him he may find and kill me.
ReplyDeleteDiane - that story of your friend's stalker is totally CREEPY!